Wednesday, July 14, 2010

You Do Make A Difference

Walking with my kids on the beach last night, we saw some starfish washed up on the beach. My daughter delighted in scooping them up with her beach shovel and tossing them back into the ocean. I delighted in telling my kids the story of the little boy and the starfish.

A little boy was at the beach one day. He noticed up and down the beach there were hundreds, maybe thousands, of starfish washed up on the sand.

He gently lifted them one by one, ran to the edge of the surf, and returned them back to the ocean. As each starfish floated away the boy would smile for a moment, wishing the starfish a long, happy life.

An old man watched the boy for awhile until he couldn't resist sharing his experienced and worldly view with the happy youth.

"Boy, there are more starfish on this beach than you could ever save. Look around, what you're doing can't possibly make much of a difference on this gigantic beach."

The boy looked puzzled for a moment, then gently picked up another starfish and placed it in the water. Another smile. Another wish.

"It made a difference to that one," the boy said confidently.

Forget what the world says. Forget what your friends say. Forget what the negative voices in your own head say. You have gifts that make the world better one moment, one person at a time.

Maybe your gift is lifting others up. Maybe your gift is serving the hungry. Maybe your gift is project management or bookkeeping or making the floors of your building sparkle.

The thing to learn from the starfish story is that not everyone will recognize your gift or how you make a difference. That doesn't mean you don't make a difference. You do. Everything you do makes a difference. You choose what kind of difference you'll make. 

Find a starfish today and gently toss it back into the ocean.




1 comments:

  1. As I spend most of my day writing today, this helped kick start. This famous story relates perfectly to what I'm working on: STOP Meeting Expectations - create impact!

    It's these small moments such as these where subconscious decisions, seemingly small or insignificant actions, or simply words of praise can have more impact than you will ever realize. Even if it's just to that one person...or one starfish.

    My challenge to your readers: What's the one thing they can do today that can have exponential results in terms of impact? What's their starfish?

    Maybe:
    - Breakfast with your children? (not just reading the paper and glancing at them)
    - Making the one extra sales call that you've been a bit anxious about doing
    - Calling the friend/family that needs to be heard or needs a hand.

    Opportunities are endless. We simply need to open our eyes to see the bigger picture and realize they are there.

    What's your starfish Mark?
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