Wednesday, July 14, 2010

You Do Make A Difference

Walking with my kids on the beach last night, we saw some starfish washed up on the beach. My daughter delighted in scooping them up with her beach shovel and tossing them back into the ocean. I delighted in telling my kids the story of the little boy and the starfish.

A little boy was at the beach one day. He noticed up and down the beach there were hundreds, maybe thousands, of starfish washed up on the sand.

He gently lifted them one by one, ran to the edge of the surf, and returned them back to the ocean. As each starfish floated away the boy would smile for a moment, wishing the starfish a long, happy life.

An old man watched the boy for awhile until he couldn't resist sharing his experienced and worldly view with the happy youth.

"Boy, there are more starfish on this beach than you could ever save. Look around, what you're doing can't possibly make much of a difference on this gigantic beach."

The boy looked puzzled for a moment, then gently picked up another starfish and placed it in the water. Another smile. Another wish.

"It made a difference to that one," the boy said confidently.

Forget what the world says. Forget what your friends say. Forget what the negative voices in your own head say. You have gifts that make the world better one moment, one person at a time.

Maybe your gift is lifting others up. Maybe your gift is serving the hungry. Maybe your gift is project management or bookkeeping or making the floors of your building sparkle.

The thing to learn from the starfish story is that not everyone will recognize your gift or how you make a difference. That doesn't mean you don't make a difference. You do. Everything you do makes a difference. You choose what kind of difference you'll make. 

Find a starfish today and gently toss it back into the ocean.




Thursday, July 8, 2010

Believe In Magic


Gotta love the "Inspirational Quote of the Week" from my friends at Compendium:


"Above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you, because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don't believe in magic will never find it." 


-- Roald Dahl (author of Charlie & The Chocolate Factory)


Ya gotta believe in magic. The happiest, most positive people I know believe in magic. I'm not talking about witchcraft, sorcery, or the force here. I'm talking about finding those moments in each day that are really amazing and special and paying attention to those moments.

As crazy as this world is, if we choose to pay attention to all the negative mojo that we're bombarded with every day we'll all eventually hide in our basements with five thousand cans of tuna. That might be good for Starkist, but not so good for our lives and businesses.

To believe in magic, you have to suspend your skepticism, push aside negativity, open your mind, and let the magic do its thing.

Have you ever been around somebody who watches a magic show and talks about how it's all trickery and "smoke & mirrors"? Those people drive me nuts! Their skepticism ruins the show for everyone around them.

I know that magic shows aren't supernatural, but I watch them in amazement because I like to be surprised and delighted by a truly talented magician. The real magic is not in the tricks, it's in our ability to enjoy the moment and scratch our heads wondering "how'd he DO that?"

I worked recently with my friend, Jon Petz. Jon and I teamed up to deliver a 2-day service and positivity session for a client. Jon is the most amazing magician I've ever known. Ok, in all fairness, Jon is the only magician I've ever known, but that in no way diminishes the fact that he's a brilliant performer. 

I love to watch Jon perform. I also love to watch people watching Jon perform. The ones who open their minds and "believe" the magic are the ones who enjoy the performance (and life in general) the most. BE one of those people!

The ones who sit back, arms folded, skeptical scowl on their faces? Well, it's pretty obvious how much they're getting out of life. DON'T be one of those people. I wish those people would understand how much they affect those around them, don't you?

Life, business, customer service, teamwork -- if you jump in with both feet and open yourself up to the possibility of magic, you'll notice more magical things will start to happen.

Need a jumpstart? Watch this video of Jon in action. It may be just what you needed to believe in magic again.